Sanity in 72 hours

For the past 15 years, I have been going away for a weekend with my close group of girlfriends. The goal is to relax, catch up, shop, enjoy gourmet food and champagne. It is also a chance to take time out from reality, away from the kids and away from the routine of life.

In the early days, we were escaping for completely different reason compared to the reasons of the recent years.

We are all mothers now. We all need a break. We all know for sure that when we return home on Sunday night that we are rested and have a fresh approach to the household. There is nothing more refreshing than having a break.

The husbands all seem to cope in their own way. Some of us have had to let go of the worry. They always survive and I know they actually prefer their own time with the kids, in their own way. I know my husband and kids really enjoy the bonding time. They also seem to really appreciate me even more so, when I come home. When I arrived home last night there was a gift and a note from the kids reading "To a Special Mum".

This past weekend we stayed in Kangaroo Valley which is located 2 hours from south of Sydney. We had an open fire, gorgeous cheeses, red wine and great conversation. On the Friday we shopped our way down the coast, on Saturday we spent all day on a gourmet food tour, eating our way around the Valley. Sunday was time for brunch in Berry and some more shopping!

Your weekend escape does not have to be for an entire weekend. You could start from just one night in the city. Take it from me, whether it is for 24 hours or 72 hours, the after affect of sanity will help you take on the next 6 to 12 months ahead.

There are only a few "must do" before you start searching for a great deal:

1. You must go with fabulous friends who can listen to what is happening in your life
2. You must be able to listen and ask questions/support to your girlfriends on the weekend
3. Try minimal contact with your family. They will survive.
4. Take the time on the weekend to be thankful for the time out. Its not easy to get away, but when you do, take a moment to be grateful
5. Sleep, sleep and sleep where you can and catch up. Although, a late night chat with your bestie is priceless
6. No guilt at ALL. You deserve it.

Go now and find a great group of friends and enjoy!